for you mere mortals who don't know RH = reception hall, nirvana meaning uh the highest level of satisfaction/ heaven/ you know that Buddhist plane of perfection you learned about in middle school while studying world religions? yea that...
after chris and i (really when it comes down to it, it's me) decided that we were to have an american wedding instead of a chinese wedding, we began our venue search...the criteria was:
1. beautiful ceremony location
2. gardens and water / fountains
3. non tacky marble and mirrors all over (very common for catering halls on long island ny/brooklyn)
4. fantastic menu
5. within budget
6. not in open water/ harbor views
first stop we went to Harbor Club in Huntington because it was the closest to Chris' parents home

(source: harborclubcaterers.com)
www.harborclubcaterers.com
the banquet manager (matt, very very prompt with answers, make sure you deal with him if you're considering harbor club) and i were corresponding over email for a week before i decided to check the place out, he was on vacation but assured me i can go over anytime to check out the facility... chris hated the fact it was in a harbor, and i felt it was too small for our wedding...so in the end we passed...but Matt was very nice and helpful.
the week after we went to check out fox hollow

(source: foxhollow.com)
www.thefoxhollow.com
this place had a great reputation and chris had already previously been here for a work function, we LOVED the food, the Bill G, the banquet manager we dealt with was super nice and answered all questions we had...the location was near perfect, except we had a feeling the outdoor ceremony would've been too close to the main road and would be a distraction...but the ballroom and everything else was very good...huge contender! but it was only the second place we saw and wasn't sure if it was RH nirvana so we continued looking
the third place we saw was westbury manor:

(source: longislandcateringhalls.com)
www.westburymanor.com
this is actually a sister location to fox hollow, and we LOVED it...it was towards the top end of our budget, but we honest to god LOVE LOVE LOVED it (Mrs. Violet got married here), they even had peacocks for pete sake! but it was not available on our date so we had to let this RH Nirvana place go...sad day it was
Next was the Swan Club

(source: swanclub.com)
www.swanclub.com
this place was really nice, the grounds were GORGEOUS!!! like i can't even tell you how amazing the grounds were...but unfortunately chris and i both didn't feel like we could imagine our wedding here...it didn't have the right feel and we weren't so sure about not being the only wedding there so we passed on this one...i should also mention that they were extremely reasonable with their quote! if it came down to the dollar, i would've ended up booking here
please stick around for: woodbury country club, crest hollow country club thatched cottage and Larkfield manor, AND!!! drumroll please....who we ultimately decided to go with
until then! abiento!