Thursday, October 15, 2009

Heartbreak and a sigh of relief

I thought about some time whether i would write a post for myself about this...and i thought why not, it's still an integral part of my wedding planning and ultimately a huge decision i made for myself going forwards

i dumped a bridesmaid...there i said it

after much drama...i decided i needed to end the friendship, there were a number of reasons that were leading up to it and ignored it and finally the straw that broke the camel's back came a few weeks ago...and i just couldn't be a pretend friend...i mean what kinda person would i be if i kept on being fake and let her think i trust her when inside i'm thinking something else...so i pulled the plug and i'm a little sad to say that i don't regret it at all...

it's unfortunate we couldn't be better friends, but such is the way of life...i had to be true to myself, whether i am misguided or not it's a decision i made for myself and there won't be any looking back...someone once said to me "jenny, you're not hurting for friends." and that person is right...

with that said, i wish my former bridesmaid the best and happiness in her upcoming marriage.

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